Now, for the most part, how is success truly measured? The
most common answer would more than likely pertain to the measurement of one’s
wealth; however, wealth does have many variations within it. Personally, I view
wealth simply as money or material possessions. It might sound acquisitive, but
it’s unfortunately true that if you do not have money, you cannot be considered
a wealthy man. Thus, some would go out on a limb and say if one is not a
wealthy man, they are not successful; yet, I believe success can definitely be
measured on an alternative scale. One does not need to have a lot of money or “wealth”
to live a happy life and achieve what they wish to (though it does help). Hence,
the “American Dream” is moreover a sought out adventure for success and
achievement rather than plain old wealth.
Unfortunately, most Americans let these contradicting
notions of wealth and poverty dictate their lives. Obviously, no one wants to
live in poverty, dealing with the melancholy idea of struggling to survive day-by-day.
Yet, on the other hand, I think that there are too many Americans that look at
wealth and see it as a definitive goal in life. A lot of Americans are materialistic,
and base their way of life on the idea that money is the ultimate prize. Some
go to the extent to base their life value on the money that they have in their
bank account. What these people are missing is the fact that money cannot
always buy happiness. Sure, it might be able to help, but true happiness and
success isn’t measured on a materialistic basis. It is rather obtained by the
intangibles: family, friends, working a job you love (even if it doesn’t pay
the highest). That is how I wish to view wealth throughout the course of my
life. I wouldn’t say to completely disregard your concerns with wealth, but do
rather focus primarily on achieving your personal successes in life. And hey,
if wealth comes along the way, that’s just an added bonus.
I really LOVED reading your blog, especially the last paragraph! I think so many Americans base their happiness of their wealth or their bank account. Working a job that you love is under appreciated. I really liked how you said that happiness is obtained by the intangibles. I totally agree! I think, however, it is hard for people to base their happiness of intangibles because they're not quantitative. Always love reading your blogs!
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